You ‘ve just touched the greatest part of my Heart. I say goodbye to your caresses, which gave so much heat to the cold winters of yesteryear….And  I tell you until never, although the memories of your love will remain alive in my mind for all eternity. It blows my mind how females are so selfish. It is an irony to tell you my heaven, maybe it is a trick of life, so much I told you in life that today, after your death, you are literally. I don’t trust like I used to. She can not destroy me as I am a strong woman and will move forward in time. It has also.effected me with trust issues on the job as well as socializing. Some may say I let him damage me by not forgetting and letting go of what transpired. You can check it out here and grab your copy!eval(ez_write_tag([[728,90],'amazingmemovement_com-medrectangle-4','ezslot_7',172,'0','0'])); After you read my letter of forgiveness, you might like this “open letter to myself”. I’m learning to love myself again , to realise I’m not the piece of rubbish he led me to believe ! If after you have tried forgiving the people who hurt you and you are still desperately struggling with hurt, pain, and anger and you feel your mental health is slipping, please reach out to a professional. This coming from the woman who thought that she couldn’t live or survive without this man. There’s no other way you are going to come to a place of inner peace and self-love until you do this. Lovely piece to regain peace. Self love is so hard to realize but once you get it, your whole world changes. Farewell letter to a great love You are exactly what all my life expects, you are what makes me turn every day in 180 degree turns, and although our love is forbidden, I cannot help loving you. Days that would not change the world for anything, although today I feel like crying and I keep wondering, what happened to us and how do we get to this point? I always end up never finishing it and deleting what I did manage to write. I’ve included tips on how to write a forgiveness letter at the end of this article but PLEASE read mine so you get a feel of what they may look like. I can tell through your words and your actions that you are heartbroken. I know that these words should not mean too much to you right now. It’s from Clara’s age, I know that for society this doesn’t look good, even in the 21st century. I was with a man for 3 years who robbed me of everything internal about me that he was able to rob me of … When I finally walked out on him for the last time a few months ago, it was the most freeing feeling I had in close to 3 years. Better move on girl! But we don’t forgive them for them, we do it for ourselves. Felt really glad listening your heart n mind . When you are writing a break up letter to him or her, I want to make sure that you include certain elements that are very important. If you need to write this letter to a family member, boss, best friend, or whoever, just do it.eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-mobile-leaderboard-1','ezslot_16',187,'0','0'])); Write as often as you have to, as often as the urge hits you. I pray that I can move forward quickly rather than later. His drug use days were brutal but is clean now due to my standing next to him and being there for everything. I stood you up so many times, and you finally decided you … I don’t know how I can explain everything that confuses me right now. Well, it has to do with what you wrote. Thank you very much. Women can get away with writing these types of things to complain how she was betrayed, hurt, ect. Hey Colleen thanx for your comment and reading the blog. :( You are a caring loving selfless soul. He finally walked out on me on my birthday no less. xoxo It’s not too late. I lived for our us!!! You think hanging on to all that hurt and pain is going to lead to eternal happiness? Whatever happens, I wish you the best of luck and I can only tell you that I will remember you. And I will not deny that it hurts, because a part of me is still where you are. HI Dev I am certainly no therapist but all I can say is you gotta learn to let go of your attachment to her and her happiness and start living your life for you. n that is the thing I don’t want. Write your letter but no need to send it out. Love and much peace to you. Leah Lee . Thank you Megan and yes, forgive and release is a must in order to move on in peace. Females are soooo judgmental. I have come to realizations that this relationship was abusive the whole time. You leave and with you all the illusions of my life are gone…. A childhood friend coworkers managers etc. That person is gone. Don’t think for a minute that you can gain it back, no big deal. I hv my wife who I guess never loved me n life is like an unending journey. Maybe you being mean to me was your way of showing me you don’t like me and I just didn’t catch on. I try to do right by me only to be treated like me and what I need don t matter. Iva: Required fields are marked *. Wow! Then finally after I lost my mum last year, going thru the last few weeks with her, I realised how insignificant he was, how unworthy of any time in my mind. She then dated a married man with children and destroyed that family only to move to the next married man only to destroy that woman as well. When we hold on to hurt, anger, pain, and any other toxic emotion, it just eats away at our very soul. You continued your mean behaviour to me because I let you.eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-leader-2','ezslot_3',192,'0','0'])); I wanted you to like me so bad that I offered up my self worth in replace of your approval. Because, here I am, broken, hurt, alone and lost. All Rights Reserved. We have to be in different places and moments and honestly, I accept it, but I still can’t find the strength to overcome it. You’re right, we all have been screwed. And it is so painful to have to leave that behind from one day to the next, that sometimes he asked me if it will be worth it to love as I have done, because you should have no doubt how much you have made my heart beat. I will read it to achieve mine!! That will keep me living, since you are part of that engine that moves me. I do not wish him Ill will. I’d also like to add you are still young enough to enjoy some happiness. Loved this letter. Breathe and love. I’ve realized that when you think you know someone, they can surprise you. As an empath I have to follow my instincts when it comes to new people. And I will love you a thousand times as I love you right now … And there is nothing that comforts the pain of not having you with me …  I have never suffered so much from being away from someone … And I love you as I have never loved anyone, angel of my heart. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sample Angry Break up Letter and I realised how far I’d come when they asked what had happened with my ex and I realised I couldn’t actually be arsed to explain lol!!!! We have to take separate paths and if one day we meet again, I hope to be able to look at them with affection and be observed in the same way; because if sometimes we hurt each other, there were more occasions when we made each other happy. I know that this letter is going to hurt you very much, but then I have no options left. Freeing your heart. Yup, this is for all of you, any of you, and none of you. xo Better days ahead indeed! I thought maybe it was another one? Yay you!! I just found out in February my husband of 25 years has been carrying on with his ex-fiance’ from thirty years ago for over a year now. It’s like having a monkey on your back all the damn time.eval(ez_write_tag([[336,280],'amazingmemovement_com-box-3','ezslot_5',171,'0','0'])); Why anyone would want to live like that is beyond me. I can’t say I forgive him , I simply don’t care any more. Without doing that, you never would have that TRUE feeling of release in your body. Thank you for so many beautiful moments. You broke up, they already know they’ve angered you in some way, whether it was by dumping you, or … Days that would not change for anything in the world, although today I feel like crying and I keep wondering, what happened to us and how did we get to this point? You mentioned 6 things that you offered up. An example of my forgiveness letter I totally want this self love, self respect, peace, love. Clara doesn’t worry me, you know she did everything possible to get me a new love, but Esteban, who has your memory more alive than her, worries me a little, although I think his wife will make him come to reason. But it hurts me more to think that I will never find a person with so much light, a soul with such harmony, a being with so much life…. No one who comes from a good loving place treats people the way you do. Love letters to say goodbye. Though the decision to call it quits may not be mutual, it’s your job to communicate and let your partner know how you’re feeling, even if you think this may hurt or disappoint them. (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});So many people cringe when I use the word forgive. I also believe that when we write ourselves ‘love letters’ if you will, it helps remind us of how amazing we truly are. eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-large-mobile-banner-1','ezslot_0',186,'0','0']));eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-large-mobile-banner-1','ezslot_1',186,'0','1'])); I believe everyone who has been hurt by a boyfriend, husband, wife, or even a family or friend needs to write a forgiveness letter. :). Thank you for lying, cheating, and saying that you would stay knowing that you would leave. I had to reread the blog to see what you were talking about. I’m just not rhe kind of person who can kick him to the curb. Now the end of one of the most beautiful and painful stages of my life has come, but I don’t regret having lived it with you. Light a candle if you want or burn some lavender oil. I feel sad for you but there is hope for you. Never send it to the person it is directed to. You were my reason for living and you will continue to be so for all eternity … I love you, I love you and I will love you forever. I will continue here and live with your memory inside me. To my extended family, Words cannot describe you, but I'm going to try. Get in touch with a trusted friend or a family member, who can give you a correct opinion about your break-up letter. Although your letter does not go into detail each situation you endured, it however gives me hope with what I am currently experiencing. I hope you find happy things that Christina likes to do to make her smile and put a song in her heart :), Yeah I know the feeling, the betrayal from a friend the hurtful words he said,the silent treatment, and most of all the feeling that he doesnt care at all. Goodbye forever my love; In my memories you will be forever, but I will never stop loving you…. Learn how your comment data is processed. Hey Ellann thanx for your comment! She left him the week before the wedding LOL On this occasion, we offer 3 different farewell letters, with which you can express your feelings at the last moment of a relationship. Whatever happens, I wish you the best of luck and I can only tell you, that I will remember you. An apology letter to the friend you hurt can be an excellent first step in repairing the relationship. And you can write a letter if you want. Your first part in forgiveness should be in recognizing what you did wrong (I know. But I am happy to say, that only a few months have passed and I am so happy. I say goodbye to your kisses that I will always remember even if I can’t have them…. I fell in love, after 20 years of your departure I found love again. Mention that the moments he said he loved you for the first time is … Thank you Iva, Click on the link below to read my very own love letter to me :). Maybe you thought you could save me before you hurt me but your method ended up hurting me anyway. But I would have to leave out quite a few words. So to all the ladies afraid to leave or struggling with the should I or shouldn’t I……… Listen to your gut. Everything makes you giggle. Then two months ago I was watching a movie about a woman who was so full of life and was murdered. Awesomeness! That’s why I am writing this break-up letter far away from you. I love your letter but can’t see me being able to say I forgive him. It’s never going to be too late to write a truth letter but don’t send it. Thank you for the hurt and the pain you caused, and for breaking me down so I can build myself back up. Trust me on that! Hey Patti I’d say you definitely got the shitty end of the stick BUT thank God you are free from all that drama. It has been during this whole time that I’ve truly lost myself. A Break-Up Letter to The Best Friend Who Broke My Heart Breakups always hurt and when it is a breakup with a best friend, it hurts the most. Barbara, Awe I love your story and your courage Barbara!! What’s happened is behind us now. Now I don’t hv problem that she left me n started a new life , but I do hv problem when I imagine her with wrong person. Most of you are very rude and selfish. After all, having to say goodbye also makes me suffer; and I thought I would have the strength to leave with my feelings intact. That anger, pain, and sadness are just too much to carry. Writing this letter to you makes my heart hurt. The best thing I can do is ask you not to hate me for leaving this way; because you have to know that I would have liked to avoid suffering for you. What’s done is done and there’s nothing you can do differently now except learn and grow from what happened. xoxo. Now after reading your letter. Love yourself always! Trust me on that. I will befriend someome and then put up a wall and damage that relationship, not intentionally, but then realize it after the fact. This isn’t to anyone in particular. Stay tru to your geniune self! Be that as it may, I just want you to know that I loved you a lot, more than I could get to love another person. Because if you are really angry and hurt at someone else, you can try to release it, but the pain will remain every-time you see them and it will come back eventually. I really don’t give a crap how you feel today. I’m gonna talk about why and how to write a forgiveness letter and share a copy of my own for you. (this post contains affiliate links so if you make a purchase I make a small commission-affiliate disclosure). It’s been over 4 years. My heart will always be attentive to you… I give it to you today so you know you’ll never be alone in this world…. You can't try to deny it. However, breaking up in such a shorter term paints a picture if the relationship was ever meant to be. BUT it was destroying me. It’s not my fault if they did what they did. If you are in anger, then don’t be in a hurry to send such a letter. Thank goodness I finally listened to what my soul was whispering to me after years of struggle. Please, even if I have to say goodbye to you, never forget that I have a great affection for you and that I hope that time makes you remember me in the same way that I will. Today I am sad, because I know that I will no longer feel your caresses or your kisses, nor will I listen to all the sweet words that you have always told me. The negativity would haunt you the rest of your life consciously or uncounsciously. I wish you could see everything from my point of view and maybe that way, it would be easier for you to forgive me. Totally differant senario, except I guess I felt in a way my life had been somewhat taken, the flashbacks, pain and yes the tears began to flow like a broken water pipe. Hi Jan. I have people who did not intentionally hurt me but they did. Apologize if it was something you did which hurt him. 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